Reflect

Have I tried to center how I am a POC, to distance myself from “those racists”? Are there moments I distanced myself from my racial identity for my personal benefit?

What is a time in your life when you were an ally to the Black community? In what ways, have you been held back from being an ally? In what ways has your allyship moved the needle for a member of the Black community or the community as a whole? In what ways has your allyship fallen victim to white-savior complex?

Who holds power in the country you live in? What is their gender, race, nationality, sexual orientation, and political stance? In what ways do they reflect you? Do you have the same access to power as those who hold power in your country? Yes or no? If no, what prevents you from gaining access?

How did their beliefs and views shape you? How do you feel about the words your parents or caregivers use to refer to people of colour today, now that you’re older?

Why or how did you get those ideas? Have they changed, and if so, why and how?

Where were you? Who were you with? Was it something a family member said? Was it an event you and your friends participated in? How did you feel?

How can you effectively raise awarness of anti-Blackness in your community? How have you raised awareness in the past? How did you feel in that interaction? How can you support others in calling out their community for ways they participate in anti-Blackness?

How have you fleshed out your understanding of these topics as an adult? Do you believe you have a complete picture of the centuries of oppression? Why or why not? What can you do to better understand?

What expectations do I hold around what is considered professional behavior or attire?

Were people of colour present? If yes, what roles did they play? What were their characteristics, clothing, and speech? If there were no people of colour present in the materials you consumed, why were they missing? What reasons can you give for their absence? Would this be realistic for the city or town the story took place in? Why or why not?

Do I speak up around issues of police violence and mass incarceration? Have I used someone else's tone as a reason to invalidate their words, logic, or feelings?

Why was that? What made them threatening? What was your response? If they were not threatening, how would you describe them? How does that early experience shape how you interact with people of colour today?

How has those teachings influence you? Do those teachings align with what you’ve read in the sacred book that guides your religious or spiritual beliefs? Why or why not?

What was your experience? Did you accept their leadership? Why or why not? In what ways did you support him/her? In what ways did you sabotage him/her? If you were never led by a person of colour in a professional setting, why do you believe that happened?